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Tuesday, August 22, 2017

Celebrating the Solar Eclipse

Thanks to our impending and unexpected move, I was not as prepared as I would like to have been for the solar eclipse, but we managed to have a pretty fun day.

We had eclipse viewer glasses, but I wanted to make a pinhole viewer so I could take photos with my cell phone. I had forgotten to do that before today, though, so I had to be quick about it. I remembered seeing a picture of "2012" projected through a pinhole viewer, so I added a "2017" to mine. It was so cool, so I made more viewers with all the kids' names and my name and a heart and today's date. I only wish I'd had time to have the kids make designs.

It was neat to see how the images changed as the eclipse progressed.

While were outside viewing, my seven-year-old son and I made some observations about nature. When we first got outside, there were some ants out and about, and we received a few bites. After a little while, I noticed the ants were still around but not biting. Then the ants disappeared altogether. I sat in the grass, ant magnet that I am, and didn't see a single ant for about 45 minutes. Suddenly, they reappeared. A few minutes later, they started biting again, so we went inside, the best of the eclipse behind us. As we discussed our experience, my son pointed out that the breeze had stopped. He was right! There was no breeze a few minutes after we got out there, which I noted when I was able to stop adjusting my viewing paper because it was no longer moving. Shortly after we came inside, the breeze picked up enough to aggravate our motion-activated camera. Fascinating.

I wanted to make eclipse shirts, but I hadn't gotten to the store, so we made chalk art for the walls using cupcake liners as stencils.

When my hard-to-impress nine-year-old pulled off her stencil, she said, "COOOOOL!"

I stumbled upon an eclipse keepsake worksheet a few hours after the eclipse and had my children complete it. Nothing beats documenting their handwriting and spelling in these early years.
(I found the worksheet link in a HUGE list of resources by Life of a Homeschool Mom.)

Mikey, 7: "Geting to look at it" 
Ellie, 9: "it lookt like a fingernail moon"
(That's what she's always called a crescent moon)
Angela, 6: "See moon in front of sun"
(She wasn't the most willing participant in this.)
I wanted to do something fun and eclipse-y for dinner to finish out the day, but I didn't quite get there. Instead, we had eclipse cookies for dessert.

Overall, it was a good day for having been completely unprepared and getting less than 70% coverage. (And knowing we're moving to the path of totality in two weeks. Two weeks! How unfair is that?!)

What did you do to celebrate the eclipse? Were you in the path of totality? Did you blog about it? Share with me!

Monday, August 22, 2016

It's breastfeeding month again!

August is National Breastfeeding Month

...and an update on my breastfeeding journey has been posted on the Sweet Pea Births blog, like the last two years.

Sunday, November 1, 2015

Menu Plan Monday 11-2-15

Flylady's November habit of the month is menu planning

Happy Menu Plan Monday!

We have a lot of activities this week, so we will be doing a lot of eating out.

Breakfast: Granola Bars or Cereal, Yogurt or String Cheese, Orange Juice
Lunch: Jimmy Johns most likely
Dinner: Picante Chicken, Sesame Green Beans

Breakfast: Granola Bars or Cereal, Yogurt or String Cheese, Orange Juice
Lunch: Jack-in-the-Box most likely (we love their chicken teriyaki bowls)
Dinner: Pasta with Tomato Sauce and Spicy Sausage (for the grown ups)

Breakfast: Granola Bars or Cereal, Yogurt or String Cheese, Orange Juice
Lunch: Food Court (before squid dissection at the aquarium)
Dinner: Barbecue Chicken, Fries, Broccoli Au Gratin (or with melted cheese on top)

Breakfast: Granola Bars or Cereal, Yogurt or String Cheese, Water (in the car)
Lunch: Sandwiches, Orange Juice
Dinner: Costco

Breakfast: Wherever the birthday boy wants to eat
Lunch: Wherever the birthday boy wants to eat
Dinner: Wherever the birthday boy wants to eat

Breakfast: Bacon, Toast, Fruit, Orange Juice
Lunch: Wherever the birthday boy wants to eat, as long as it's fast and portable
Dinner: TBD

Brunch: Croissants, Sausage, Fruit, Orange Juice
Dinner: Hot Dogs, Baked Beans, Fruit

Saturday, March 30, 2013

Don't blink

You know the saying: "Don't blink or you'll miss it."  It can be used literally in the event of an anticipated quick moment.  It is more often used as hyperbole to emphasis the fleeting nature of a situation, such as how quickly children grow.

Experts say our eyes are drier in this digital age because screens keep us from blinking enough.  The irony is those periods of not blinking are actually making us miss the small but important moments in our lives.

I have this illusion that sitting in the same room as my kids, looking up from my computer frequently, is going to keep me from missing those moments.  I know I still miss some, but what's worse is knowing how I'M KEEPING THEM FROM HAPPENING.

There is the obvious lack of my participation: games I could play with my children, moments of cuddling and stories we could enjoy.  Then there's the part I feel lucky to have noticed early on, before it became habit.

My children, as most children, have a certain (somewhat irritating) phrase at the ready at all times.  That phrase is, "Mommy, look at me!"  Some might argue here that of course my children are literally crying out for my attention; I'm on the computer.  Most parents know that children will use this attention-getting technique in any situation, even when you are right there interacting with them.

So what does it mean when your kids stop saying, "Look at me?"  They must be secure enough playing on their own that they no longer need your constant attention, right?  Maybe they have grown out of that phase. It's just a toddler and preschooler thing, right?

What if they stopped asking because you weren't responding?

Does that mean they don't need or want your attention?  Absolutely not.  It means you've lost their trust.

Now here is where someone is going to say I'm blowing this way out of proportion.  How can "look at me" be compared to safety and fulfilled needs?  IT'S JUST BASIC HUMAN PROGRAMMING.  Search the Internet.  You'll find all sorts of reputable experts and institutions stating this and the proof.

Lucky for me (or should I say "Thank God"), I put this all together and realized I need to be not only responding to my children when they say, "Look at me!," but I need to be responding immediately.

Since I discovered this, I've been working on training myself to immediately drop everything and look at my child.  What have I noticed?  My children are happier, nicer to each other, nicer to our possessions, and MORE WILLING TO WAIT when I need them to.

I definitely have moments and even days when I am too busy or not in the mood to be at my children's beck and call.  Through these moments I've learned something else: my children can accept this IF I EXPLAIN IT TO THEM.  What a concept, eh?  "I have to make some important phone calls, so I can only help you if it's an emergency, okay?"  "I'm not feeling well, so I need you to help me out and give me some space.  Do you understand?"  They are happy to entertain themselves (once in a while) if I just ask.

I can't take the credit for these moments of enlightenment.  Elizabeth George, in her book A Woman After God's Own Heart, talks about creating Five Fat Files, five areas of expertise for your life on which you spend most of your time and brainpower.  This concept was liberating.  I wanted to read mostly books on marriage and parenting and a few other limited subjects, but I was afraid I was going to miss something important.  She said it's impossible and impractical to read everything, so we should focus on that which will most affect our lives.

One of my five is parenting.  I've been reading books and blogs and articles and websites...everything I can find.  I even have an Internet bookmark folder called "Five Fat Files," in which I place websites and articles I've found useful.  I've been practicing scripts to use in - and adapt to - certain situations.  Boy, has that been a good use of time and brainpower!

Now I can hear someone saying that I'd be better off spending less time reading about parenting and more time doing it.  That's like saying you'd be better off throwing ingredients together instead of learning to cook or at least reading a recipe.  Or hammering pieces of wood together instead of learning the necessary construction skills or at least watching a YouTube video of how to build whatever you are building.

It's not like there are specific instructions or techniques for parenting, but there are tips and tools and ideas that you can store away for when you need them.  A chapter at night before bed, a few articles while the children are happily playing or a blog delivered to your email daily that you can read on your phone whenever you have a spare two minutes are all ways to expose yourself to this invaluable knowledge.

It is this research that has helped me become more aware of my children, their needs, their wants, their love languages, and so forth.  Constantly pumping myself with these parenting ideals is changing my instincts, my reactions, my reaction time.  It's making me more aware of my areas of opportunity, in all areas of my life!

(Please, if you use the terms "weaknesses"  or "shortcomings" or the like in reference to anything animate, especially people, please, please change your way of thinking to "areas of opportunity" or anything else more hopeful.  This change of heart will affect you and everyone around you - your spouse, your children, your friends - in a positive way.  It completely changes your attitude.)

Our children are only children for a short while.  Why not work as hard as you can to be the best parent you can be by learning all you can about how to be the best you for your individual child?  Be knowledgeable and be present.  The rest will fall into place.

So I'm not asking you to not blink but rather to blink.  Blink to break your focus on the screens.  Blink to change your view of your surroundings.  Blink (and take a deep breath) to remind yourself to look inward as well as outward.  Trust me when I say the blinking will open your eyes so you don't miss a thing.

Monday, March 25, 2013

No Poo Update Week 10

After desperately using shampoo and suffering far worse for it, I decided to try applesauce.  (A lot of people use that instead of baking soda, apparently.)

I tried it last night.  My hair was super sticky again, no matter how much I scrubbed and rinsed.  I had a light bulb moment: the problem wasn't the baking soda; it was my own sebum (oil) caked up in my hair.  I tried spraying on ACV and combing through with an almost-fine-tooth comb, and I got some of the residue out, but my hair was still gross.  I set off to do more research.

I discovered that hard water is the problem.  It basically creates soap scum in the hair.  (This isn't a problem with shampoo, which is a detergent, not a soap, and works with any water.)  The top recommendation is boiling the water to soften it and mixing in the baking soda while the water is still hot.

This great post describes my problem exactly.

I was going to try this, but I discovered that boiled water takes forever to cool (but does make the BS fizz like nobody's business!), and I couldn't wait that long to wash my hair.  I decided to try ACV in the shower, treating it like shampoo.  I used water as hot as I could stand to wet my hair.  Then I added full-strength ACV and scrubbed for a couple minutes.  My hair started to feel slippery, the way it should feel during the BS stage, but not the acid stage.  I figured I must be breaking up some of the residue and releasing BS that was stuck in my hair.  I rinsed and rinsed.

Happy that my hair was in no way sticky, I stopped.  My hair still felt slippery, and it left a slippery coating on my hands.  I tried to rinse again with even hotter water.  I got much of the slippery feel out, though it was still pretty slippery where I'm normally most oily (my temples and the back of my head).  Satisfied that I did the best I could for now, I thought I'd see what it was like dry.  It's still drying, and I can tell my hair's still questionable, though much better.  I left my boiled-water concoctions in the shower and might try again tonight.

It's going to be a pain in the rear if I have to boil my water every time (or buy distilled water), but if my hair goes back to the way it was a few weeks ago, it'll still be WAY better than shampoo.

Monday, March 18, 2013

No Poo Update Week 9

Update as of three-four weeks ago:

I use a couple tablespoons of baking soda (I totally dilute the BS in water and use a sport-style bottle to squirt it on, then I massage my scalp well before rinsing VERY well), which I'm sure is more than I need, and I just spritz on the ACV after I get out of the shower. I have long, thick, curly hair, and I learned not to put the BS more than a few inches from my scalp; my hair was SO full of static! What I read said most people use about 1 tablespoon of BS to a cup of water and 1 tablespoon of ACV to a cup of water.  My hair has been AWESOME. It's soft, smooth, mostly tangle free, static free, easy to braid. In fact, three or four days in was the first day I'd worn it any way besides down, and I'm usually in a pony tail by then.

Update two-three weeks ago:

There is a residue on my hair for the first time since that unfortunate bath tub washing.  I thought I was really thorough with my rinsing, but apparently not.  My hair's not too different otherwise, though, still easy to manage.

Update one-plus week ago:

My hair was greasy very early in the week.  I attribute that, at least in part, to my hair being past the too-long point.  My hair always reaches a needs-to-be-cut point where it is very tangly and greasy and yucky no matter what.  Since I was growing out my hair for Locks of Love, I wasn't getting it trimmed.  My scalp also protests violently at this point, and my scalp was itchy and raw.

I finally got a chance (thanks, Mom!) to go get my hair cut.  My scalp already felt better immediately after the cut, but it still had its issues.  The next day I washed it my hair, and it felt GREAT.  The day after that, however, I felt a bit of residue again.  My hair was a little stringy looking but not too bad, again.

I decided to wash it a bit early because the residue was causing some scalp irritation.  I couldn't rinse out the BS at all.  My hair was sticky.  I thought maybe it was just my hands feeling funny, but I touched my hair with my totally-clean forearm, and it became sticky.  I tried to rinse more, but nothing was changing.  I knew vinegar would probably take care of it, but shampoo was right there, so I used it.  My hair felt wonderfully clean.  The next day, however, it started to get oily.  Two days later (yesterday), my scalp started to itch.  Today my scalp is a raging mess, and my hair is an oil slick.

I definitely can't go back to shampoo, but I can't use BS, either.  I found a site that lists alternatives for the BS and ACV, so I'll try something there in place of the BS.  I'm bummed, but I'm determined to find something because shampoo is DEFINITELY not me-friendly.

Sunday, February 17, 2013

No Poo Update Week 5

I meant to update weekly.  Whoops!  Here's the original post in case you missed it.

Week 1: My hair stayed easy to untangle the entire week.  It started to get oily at the same time as usual, but it never got AS oily.  I did have static issues, but, as I mentioned, I forgot to use my apple cider vinegar (ACV) rinse.

Week 2: My hair was very dry and tangled easily.  I'm definitely using too much baking soda.  No amount of ACV could help me.  My hair was still full of static, too.  Again, my hair got oily around the same time but never got as oily as before.

Week 3: I cut the baking soda in half.  My hair was much less dry.  This time I used too much ACV, which left my hair smelling like vinegar after it dried.  (The smell usually goes away once your hair is dry.)  I did try the spray bottle for application, and it was very nice.  My hair was very full - not in a good way...my curls and waves were all broken, but I was able to wear my hair down after wearing it in a pony tail for a day.  That's something I've never been able to do.  In fact, my hair was smoother that day.  Crazy!  My hair was easier to brush again this week, but still not as awesome as week 1.  Again, I got oily around the same time, but this time I was way less oily than before.

Week 4: I used the same (half) amount of baking soda.  This definitely seems to be the right amount for me.  I used much less ACV, and I didn't notice a difference, so I guess less is more.  My hair is still too full, but it's more manageable, so I'll take the trade.  My hair got oily around the same time but was even less so than last week.

Week 5: I washed my hair in the tub instead of the shower.  Mistake.  I couldn't get it wet enough nor rinse it well enough.  I walked around for a week (it's hard to get around to washing my hair) with chalky/oily hair.  BUT it was STILL nowhere near as oily as before.  And who knew baking soda could leave your hair feeling chalky?  The only other bad part was I developed a lot of buildup on my scalp.  Yes, I do have problems with that normally thanks to eczema, but this was extreme.  I don't blame the no-poo routine, though.  I blame not enough water.  The rule is - and this is true for washing your pets, too! - make sure to wet the hair and skin thoroughly before applying shampoo (or baking soda, in this case) and rinse it out completely.

Today I washed my hair properly, in the shower, and it felt great.  My scalp came clean quite easily, and my hair has returned to its full-but-more-manageable state.  I do hope the full part goes away some, but I'll take easy to brush, et al.  I'm hoping to make it to Great Clips this week to donate my hair to Locks of Love.  My hair is always extra full after I chop it off.  This should be interesting...